(All about my activities, thoughts, inspiration, ideas, and everything that happened around me...)

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

The Talk


Boy: I need someone to talk to.
Girl: I'm always here for you.
Boy: I know.
Girl: What's wrong?
Boy: I like her so much.
Girl: Talk to her.
Boy: I don't know. She won't ever like me.
Girl: Don't say that...you're amazing.
Boy: I just want her to know how I feel.
Girl: Then tell her.
Boy: She won't like me.
Girl: How do you know that?
Boy: I can just tell her...
Girl: Well just tell her.
Boy: What should I say?
Girl: Tell her how much you like her.
Boy: I tell her daily.
Girl: What do you mean?
Boy: I'm always with her...I love her.
Girl: I know how you feel. I have the same problem...but he'll never like me.

Boy: Wait. Who do you like?
Girl: Oh, some boy.
Boy: Oh, she won't like me either.
Girl: She does.
Boy: How do you know?
Girl: Because who wouldn't like you?
Boy: You.
Girl: You're wrong. I love you.
Boy: I love you too.
Girl: So are you going to talk to her?
Boy: I just did.


Urs,

Monday, January 7, 2013

A Love that never DIES.

There was once this guy who is very much in love with his girl. This romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of paper cranes as a gift to his girl.

Although, at that time he was just a small fry in his company, his future didn't seem too bright, they were very happy together. Until one day, his girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back. She also told him that she cannot visualize any future for the both of them, so they went their own ways there and then...

Heartbroken, the guy agreed. But when he regained his confidence, he worked hard day and night, slogging his body and mind just to make something out of himself.

Finally with all the hard work and the help of friends, this guy had set up his own company .

You never fail until you stop trying. One rainy day, while this guy was driving, he saw an elderly couple sharing an umbrella in the rain walk ing to some destination. Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched. It didn't take him long to realize they were his girl's parents.

With a heart in getting back at them, he drove slowly beside the couple, wanting them to spot him in his luxury sedan. He wanted them to know that he wasn't the same any more; he had his own company, car, condo, etc. He made it! What he saw next confused him, the couple was walking towards a cemetery, and so he got out of his car and followed...and he saw his girl, a photograph of her smiling sweetly as ever at him from her tombstone and he saw his paper cranes right beside her...

Her parents saw him. He asked them why this had happened. They explained, she did not leave for France at all. She was ill with cancer. She had believed that he will make it someday, but she did not want to be his obstacle... therefore she had chosen to leave him.

Just because someone doesn't love you the way you wa nt them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have. She had wanted her parents to put his paper cranes beside her, because, if the day comes when fate brings him to her again...he can take some of those back with him...

Once you have loved, you will always love. For what's in your mind may escape but what's in your heart will remain forever.

The guy just wept...

"The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside her knowing you can't have her, see her or be with her ever again".........hope you understand.

Find time to realize that there is one person who means so much to you, for you might wake up one morning losing that person who you thought meant nothing to you.



Urs,

Story of a Mother with one eye

My mom only had one eye. I hated her…
She was such an embarrassment. She cooked for students and teachers to support the family.

There was this one day during elementary school where my mom came to say hello to me. I was so embarrassed.

How could she do this to me? I ignored her, threw her a hateful look and ran out. The next day at school one of my classmates said, ‘EEEE, your mom only has one eye!’

I wanted to bury myself. I also wanted my mom to just disappear. I confronted her that day and said, ‘ If you’re only gonna make me a laughing stock, why don’t you just die?’

My mom did not respond…

I didn't even stop to think for a second about what I had said, because I was full of anger. I was oblivious to her feelings.
I wanted out of that house, and have nothing to do with her. So I studied real hard, got a chance to go abroad to study.
Then, I got married. I bought a house of my own. I had kids of my own. I was happy with my life, my kids and the comforts. Then one day, my Mother came to visit me. She hadn't seen me in years and she didn't even meet her grandchildren.

When she stood by the door, my children laughed at her, and I yelled at her for coming over uninvited. I screamed at her, ‘How dare you come to my house and scare my children!’ GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!’

And to this, my mother quietly answered, ‘Oh, I’m so sorry. I may have gotten the wrong address,’ and she disappeared out of sight.

One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house. So I lied to my wife that I was going on a business trip. After there union, I went to the old shack just out of curiosity.

My neighbors said that she died. I did not shed a single tear. They handed me a letter that she had wanted me to have.

Mom's Letter:
My dearest son,
I think of you all the time. I’m sorry that I came to your house and scared your children.

I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion. But I may not be able to even get out of bed to see you. I’m sorry that I was a constant embarrassment to you when you were growing up.

You see……..when you were very little, you got into an accident, and lost your eye. As a mother, I couldn't stand watching you having to grow up with one eye. So I gave you mine.

I was so proud of my son who was seeing a whole new world for me, in my place, with that eye.

With all my love to you,
Your mother.

***Always LOVE your parents. They are a blessing to you.****

***We only have one mom, so love her, you will come to cry when she's gone.***


Urs,

Thursday, January 3, 2013

Research Done By Santa

Mr. Santa has got a chance to become a researcher and he went to America and did a interesting research on a Frog.

Here is the research story of the Santa

Mr. Santa caught a Frog and put the Frog on a table and asked to the Frog, “Daddu, my son, jump!”

Frog jumped about six feet.

Then Mr. Santa cut one rear leg of the Frog and then put the Frog again on the table and asked to the Frog, “Daddu, my son, jump!”

Frog used the force of all three legs and jumped about three feet.

Then Mr. Santa cut one more leg of the Frog , that was his right front leg.

Now Mr. Santa put the Frog on the table and again asked the Frog , “Daddu, my son, jump!”

Frog used the force of his two legs and jumped about one feet.

Now Mr. Santa cut one more leg of the Frog , that was the second rear leg of the Frog.

Then put the Frog again on the table and asked the Frog , “Daddu, my son, jump!”

Frog somehow using the force of his remaining last leg and try to jump but managed to scrawl himself just about two inches.

Now at last Mr. Santa cut the last leg of the Frog and put the Frog on the table and asked him again, “Daddu, my son, jump!”

But this time the Frog even collecting the whole inner strength of his body failed to even scrawl himself.

Now Mr. Santa find the result from his study and made a generalization that“ If all four Legs of the Frog are cut down then Frog stops listening.”


A Child's Story


A child was grown up to the age of 10 he thought that one day I wud change the world, but when he grown up to the age of 20 he realized that I cant b able to change the world, but one day I wud definitely change this country, but again in the age of 30 he realized this country cudnt b change, ok, at least I wud definitely change my society, but in the age of 50 he again realized that this also cant b able to change, so, he thought atleast, i can make change to my home, but again he failed.

Now in the age of 60 he thought that nobody is ready to change ok, I will change myself, but he had no time left to made any change to Himself as the life is ending.

SO DONT WASTE THE TIME TO MAKE CHANGE TO OTHERS.

USE UR TIME TO MAKE POSITIVE CHANGE TO URSELF.


Urs,

Marriage is a compromise, which means “Come Promise”...



1. To be together forever.

2. To be there through thick and thin.

3. To fulfill each other dreams and needs with full efforts put on.

4. To never lie with each other.

5. To truly believe and follow, “Forgive, Forget and more on”.

6. To never let jealously and doubt gain power over love we have for each other.

7. To never take each other or our marriage for granted.

8. To ensure the bottom line always remains “I Love U”.

9. To always face all the adversities together with a smile.

10. To have a goal and walks towards it hand-in-hand.

11. To love you tomorrow more than today.

12. To truly believe and follow, “Forgive, Forget and more on”.

13. To never let anything shake the core of trust, care and concern.


Urs,

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

"Happy New Year 2013"


I hereby wish  a very "Happy New Year 2013" to my all readers who always give the support and courage to me to write something innovative and interesting.

Life is full of challenges and each challenge come with a new opportunity infact a new beginning. So the Year 2013 is coming with new challenges with new opportunities. Ready to face these challenges with courage and grab the opportunities waiting for you. Welcome this year with open arms, forget the bad things of the Year 2012, use the experiences of past and make your future bright with your own hands. Year 2013 will become more beautiful if we make it.

Make a resolution to spread the Love, Peace and Prosperity in the world. Make another resolution to make each effort to save our environment. It is the urgent need for human kind that they understand that our environment is getting disturbed due to extra pollution, rising demand of luxury in daily life, extra use of natural resources of earth and rising population. 

With lots of hopes for bright future to all my readers, I am welcoming 2013 with open heart and also with a big smile on my face.


Urs,

Monday, December 31, 2012

Good Bye 2012



2012 is about to go and this will be my last blog post of 2012.

I am sitting along with my husband, busy watching the rain outside the window pane and feel the freshness of memorable December. I must say 2012 bought a drastic change in every one's life according to their situations. Everybody had learned something from this year. In this year I have laughed, cried, evolved, made mistakes..and learned a lot from those mistakes.

2012 was the busiest and most exciting years for me so far and hard slog for some reasons (well, I don’t wish to remember that...). On the other side of the year, I have learned a lot that it is better to love and cherish what we have than what we lost and missed and don’t take everything to heart.

It’s time to say good bye to 2012 and to delete all the bad things happened and save good things to move forward in the New Year 2013.

Also, I’m grateful to my Husband, Parents, Relatives and my dearest friends who made 2012 year a successful year to me. Ofcourse, few experiences from some people was hard to forget but trying my best to remove all those and make a fresh start. Hoping the coming year will bring lots of happiness and good memories to make all my dreams true...

aankhon main umeedon ke kuch ho sapne,aanchal naman ka ho tan-man pe apne,
raatein ho gehri to kya...aata hai aakhir ek din naya!!!!!


Urs,

Sunday, December 30, 2012

Collection of old commercials.


Today I was goggling for some videos in youtube and came across with some old ads which were famous when I was kid and used to watch in doordarshan channel. So my search turned upon the old ads and watched lots of old ads. Suddenly, I thought it to share with my readers to memorize the old ads. my collection of old commercial breaks will surely bring back memories from the past. The nostalgic Doordarshan clips from the olden days will take all of us into a world where there was no time for worries. All because we were still kids. The Internet is like a God given by Time Machine. It's so easy to go back into the past and dig out the sweet memories which made our days glad.

Dhara cooking oil - This Ad takes me to my childhood... Feeling Nostalgic...:)


Cadbury Dairy Milk - The dance was simply CLASSIC.!!!!! the moves of relation,happiness,excitement and joy.

                                       

Hamara BAJAJ - Till today my dad takes good care of his scooter and I am loving it.


Fevicol - I used say this line while lifting or pulling anything in my childhood.



Vicco Turmeric Ayurvedic Cream - This was the first cream I used to apply when I was in 3rd standard..:)


Titan Commercial: This song has got potential to be converted into a great guitar rock remix :)


Ajanta Clocks: Truly a nostalgia of my childhood days.



Natraj Pencil: Reminds me of my school days.


Surya Bulbs and Tubes:


AC Black - Kuch Bhi Ho Sakta Hai:


Rasna:



Maggi:



Wheel Detergent Commercial:



Vicco Vajradanti:



Parle-G:


Lifebuoy:



Lijjat Papad:


Liril:



Hamam Soap:


Dabur Hajmola:


Amul Butter:



Asian Paints :

Bournvita:


Complan:


Horlicks:


Nerolac Paints:



Nirma beauty soap:





Washing Powder Nirma:


Mysore Sandal Soap:


Breeze Soap:



Lux soap:


Fair and Lovely:


Dabur Amla Hair Oil :



Colgate Toothpowder:




Urs,

Way of thinking for a women in a society


Few days back when I was working, we all colleagues were on a usual chat in our office. We generally talk about from food in our canteen to the entire topics in the world. Then someone started the topic of marriage and after a brief of things being discussed the topic came to the qualities expected in wife. In our team there were 3 girls and 14 boys. As the majority of the boys were high and girls, including me were engaged, so the discussion was going in between the boys and we girls were adding our comments in between.

Collegue1:  My wife should be beautiful, respect my parents and me (parivaar ka khyaal rakhna crap) and be a house wife.

CollegueX : Why housewife?

Collegue1: I don’t like women going around and working, it looks odd to me

CollegueY: Why does it look odd to you?
Collegue1: Don’t know, whenever I think of women I remember kitchen, children, cooking.... earning is for the men lot.


He also added that he would not like it if his wife called him by his name..........he wanted his wife to refer to him as "oh ji............haan ji"etc kinda usual shit.


Now let’s go to Collegue2
Collegue2: I would not mind if my wife is working.......but she should not be earning more than me because that will make me lose control over her........I want her to be under limits set by me and you can't do that when she earns more. And moreover I will lose respect in my community.


Now there were lots of other comments put in by others, some like the above two, someone against it, some in between and so on.........

Here I want to highlight that both of my Colleagues are with high education and economically n financially settled............. But still they could not accept the fact that wife/women in general are no way lesser to them.

Society says or thinks that a seedha saadha girl is termed innocent and backward and a modern girl with stubborn views is called A BITCH.

Our society has set boundaries for woman and anyone crossing those boundaries is an untouchable.

An elder of the family says that "who would want a daughter in law who kicks football all day and can't make round chappatties".

My question:“Is a woman is for making chapaties only” DONT THEY HAVE GOALS...  ASPIRATIONS.......LIKES ...............DISLIKES…..

If women can do a work that a boy does, then why can’t a boy do the job which a woman does? If a woman gives respect to man then in returns she has the right to take respect too.

Don’t they have any right to choose the best for her...?  Why they need to give explanations and why they need to take permissions for all silly things? Why society is having expectations with girls? Why they can’t provide freedom and make them enjoy freedom as much as the boys do. The freedom should be in limits based on situation and not gender.

Women who deliver the life by taking the risk of his own life is criticized for every movement of her life by the society. A women is being criticized as a women, whether it is matter of her wearing clothes , matter of love , matter of selecting a partner for her for marriage, matter of  taking education, even she is criticized on her birth.

Equally at the same time it is the responsibility of the each person of the civilized society must understand the value of woman in the society. Every woman in the society must be respected as woman no matter she is a mother, daughter, sister, wife, or a friend of someone. She must be respected as woman for which she deserve for.  



 Urs,